Former porn star and sex columnist Jessica Stojadinovic (Stoya) gave advice of a 32-year-old woman who had a lover "suck" her on the neck during sex. The woman's letter and the specialist's response were published by Slate.
The woman had been seeing her new boyfriend for a few months, but his habit of "sucking" confuses her. She explained that she finds it sexy when it happens, but then feels uncomfortable: whenever she goes out, she always has to use foundation.
„My neck looks like a crime scene, people have already asked me if I accidentally burned myself. But summer is coming, the concealers on my skin will melt and I don't want to look like a hot teen”, she wrote, asking for advice on how to cover up blemishes or avoid them without losing the fun.
„If it's a matter of sensation, you can ask him to try to push his tongue forward more than his teeth and push with his tongue instead of sucking. A lot of pressure and rolling of the tongue can feel just as good to you as sucking, and he'll be able to experience the same satisfaction of primal passion that comes from it,” she concluded.