Psychologist Esther Perel believes that each case of infidelity has its own explanation, but they are united by the main reason. She pointed it out to the British newspaper “Telegraph“.
According to the psychologist, the reason for infidelity is often related to relationships. For example, a person feels rejected, betrayed, and this pushes him towards infidelity. Another common reason, according to her, is the detachment of partners and a sense of loneliness. No less often, the expert claims, the reason for infidelity is internal reasons of a person that are not directly related to the actions of the partner.
The psychologist is convinced that behind all these explanations there is one main reason: the relationship is dead. However, she emphasizes that it can be revived, and the most effective way to do this is to awaken the partners' curiosity about each other. "You should try to admit that you don't know your partner as well as you think. Try to talk to them about something interesting instead of making demands," the expert advised.